August 5, 2008
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Featured Article: Appreciating Challenges
Audio Tip
Announcements
Speaking Schedule
Samantha's Corner
Greetings!
Welcome to another issue of Appreciation in Action. I hope you’re doing well and taking time to appreciate all of the good stuff in your life. Even and especially when things get challenging – it’s so important and empowering for us to take the time to appreciate all that we have, the people around us, and ourselves.
I’m grateful that you’re on my e-zine list and honored that I get to connect with you this way every few weeks!
With Appreciation,
Appreciating Challenges
Are you facing any challenges in your life or your business right now? These days, there are some real challenges facing many of us – slowing economy, high gas prices, housing market crash, lots of negativity and complaining around us (based on all of this stuff going on), and a myriad of personal issues related to family, health, money, relationships, and more that tend to show up in life.
The challenges themselves, even the most difficult ones, aren’t usually the real issue; it’s our relationship to them that causes us the most pain and difficulty. Think of what your life, your relationships, and your career would be like if you didn’t complain about or resist challenges when they showed up? For most of us, this would make things very different.
Resisting, complaining about, or even feeling sorry for ourselves about the “bad” things that are happening is totally normal and what we are often encouraged to do by people around us and our culture in general – whether we do it out loud with others or just in our minds. However, these things, while understandable, don’t address the real issues, the emotions we’re experiencing, or make things better for us.
I’m not advocating that we pretend everything is “fine” when it isn’t – that’s denial, which won’t help us either. However, the question in life and business isn’t whether or not we’ll face challenges, the question is what will we do and how will we respond in the face of the challenges that arise. Do we avoid really dealing with difficult things and learning from them by playing the role of the victim and not acknowledging our true feelings about them or do we face them directly, acknowledge our emotions, and choose to grow from the experience? It’s always up to us.
On our path of life, growth, and success, we all encounter difficulties. However, many of the most successful and fulfilled people who’ve ever walked the planet have faced incredible challenges. What if we actually appreciated our challenges? Remember, appreciating something doesn’t necessarily mean we like or enjoy it. Appreciation means that we recognize the value of something and are grateful for it.
Here is a list of some things we can appreciate when things get tough:
- Challenges often give us important feedback about where and who we are
- Challenges give us contrast and can help us appreciate things when they get easier
- Challenges can allow us to wake up and notice all the good things that are happening that we weren’t paying attention to
- Challenges are always a great opportunity for learning, growth, and improvement
- Challenges give us an opportunity to get in touch with, take responsibility for, and express our real emotions
By learning to appreciate our challenges and see the opportunities in them, we take our power back from the situations and circumstances of our lives. Our ability to appreciate difficulties, learn from them, and use them to our advantage, gives us an important insight into who we really are and how to create success and fulfillment in a conscious and deliberate way.
Action: What You Can Do
Make a list of some of the biggest challenges in your life right now. What can you appreciate about each of these difficulties? What are you learning from them? What are you able to appreciate in yourself and your life because of these things? If you look for it, you’ll be able to find many things to appreciate about every one of your current challenges. Appreciating our challenges can allow us to accept them, learn from them, and ultimately take back our power from them. Doing this reminds us that we’re the authors of our lives – not the circumstances we’re facing.
For more ideas about appreciating our challenges, click on this link for this week’s audio tip below.
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Appreciating Challenges
This week's audio tip from me is about appreciating challenges... finding the joy in the chaos of life and learning that often what stretches us makes us stronger in the end. Click here to listen.
Book Recommendation: Mind Capture
My friend and marketing expert Tony Rubleski has released a great new book called Mind Capture: How to Stand Out in the Age of Advertising Deficit Disorder. If you or anyone you know is an entrepreneur, marketing person, or has any product, service, or business you want to let people know about in an effective way – this book will give you lots of great ideas and techniques to reach the people you want to. Check out the link below to find out more about this wonderful new book as well as the free bonuses you’ll receive from lots of great authors, including me, when you purchase copies. http://www.mindcapturebook.com/
Check Out My Updated Blog:
We’ve recently enhanced my blog quite a bit, have added video and audio clips (including the audio tip for today’s e-zine), and much more. I’m excited about it and hope you enjoy it! I’m now blogging three times a week and making sure to find inspirational video clips each week to post on my blog – to inspire you and others. Feel free to check it out at the link below – you can even sign up to receive email updates when I post something new.
http://www.mike-robbins.com/blog/
Below is a list of where I’m speaking for the next few months. Most of these events are for my corporate or organizational clients (i.e. not open to the public). The events listed in bold text below are at bookstores, churches, and other public venues which anyone can attend. I would love to see you or people you know at one of my public events. And, if you live in any of the cities where I will be traveling and want to contact me about setting up a speaking engagement for your group or company while I’m in town, feel free to contact me. Thanks! For more detailed information about my public events, feel free to visit:
www.focusonthegoodstuff.com/publicevents.html
8/14/08 – San Francisco, CA
8/15/08 – San Francisco, CA
8/21/08 – San Francisco, CA
8/28/08 – San Francisco, CA
9/4/08 – San Ramon, CA
9/9/08 – Los Angeles, CA
9/11/08 – San Francisco, CA
9/18/08 – San Francisco, CA
9/25/08 – Los Angeles, CA
10/4/08 – Cincinnati, OH
10/5/08 – Los Angeles, CA – public event (Agape)
10/6/08 – Los Angeles, CA
10/7/08 – Los Angeles, CA
10/14/08 – Martinez, CA
10/15/08 – San Francisco, CA
10/18/08 – Oakland, CA
10/23/08 – San Francisco, CA
10/26/08 – Palo Alto, CA – public event (Unity Palo Alto)
10/30/08 – San Francisco, CA
Again, for more detailed information about my public events, feel free to visit:
www.focusonthegoodstuff.com/publicevents.html
“Hi! Remember, to appreciate the good stuff and the people in your life. I appreciate my friend Isabelle – we played dress up last weekend and it was fun!”
– Samantha Benoit Robbins
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